A woman I admire.
A friend of mine recently just posted a blog article that had an online community up in arms with debate. I would like to give credit and props to my friend for having the gusto to post such a controversial article, and also how she gracefully defends her opinion on the subject.
Sometimes posting a controversial topic on such a large network, such at Tumblr, can be frightening. The ability to have people criticize, critique and scrutinize your ever word can be terrifying. Things can and will be taken out of context, and this is something you must know going in. Luckily, there are those in the world - like my friend - who are brave enough to stand up to the criticism in order to start the conversation. The world cannot positively move forward if people are too concerned about stirring the pot.
Surprisingly (and appreciatively), the feedback from the article has been mostly positive. The community has backed her, provided their own relating personal stories and been overall very supportive. People are also understanding that this is an opinion piece, that she felt a certain way about the issue and was brave enough to post about her experience. Hopefully this debate can be used in a constructive manner to push new change upon the community.
Unfortunately, there has also been a bit of negative feedback to her opinion piece. Some comments were crude and thus reinforced (and demonstrated) her position on the topic. I am a big believer in having a voice and being able to disagree, but with tact. You need to have evidence or at least have thought through your argument carefully before putting words out into the world. Just saying “I disagree” doesn’t cut it. You tell me why you disagree and then I’ll listen to your viewpoint. Perhaps this open discussion can broaden my thoughts on the issue - as well as yours.
I don’t think enough people put their perspective out there for fear of others scrutiny. My friend - my courageous, brave and undaunted friend - hopefully has set a new standard for voicing how you feel without fear. Do not be afraid to have an opinion. Do not be afraid to be disagreed with. Do not be afraid to start a conversation.
Do not feel as though your thoughts don’t matter. They do more than you know. Stir the pot people!
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